Mothers And Sons by Adam Haslett

​”At forty, Peter, an asylum lawyer in New York City, is overworked and isolated… But when the asylum case of a young gay man pierces Peter’s numbness, the event that he has avoided for twenty years returns to haunt him.…As Peter’s case plunges him further into the memory of his first love and the night of violence that changed his life forever, he and his mother must confront the secret that tore them apart.” – Goodreads

My Thoughts: – It starts out as a slow burn but picks up speed, and I absolutely loved Peter in Mothers and Sons. His mother, Ann, grew on me as the book progressed, but Peter I was smitten with right from the start—a conscientious immigration lawyer who deals with his traumatized clients while trying to ignore his own traumatic past.​

The tragic event when Peter was 19 has led not only to his estrangement with his mother but also the lonely, workaholic existence he’s been living ever since. I know it sounds like a grim read, but the ending is hopeful. And as with The Correspondent, Mothers and Sons is about how guilt and regret can eat away at a person if it’s not dealt with at the time.​

Rating: 4.5 stars



4 responses to “Mothers And Sons by Adam Haslett”

  1. This book was not on my radar at all, but I like what you have to say about it. Guilt is such a heavy burden.

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    1. Wasn’t on my radar either but the Lambda Awards for 2026 announced three weeks ago and Mothers and Sons got nominated for best gay fiction. I liked the plot and so decided to give the book a try. Since learned that two of Hasletts prior books were nominated for the Pulitzer prize

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  2. Great review Kathy. You make this novel sound very good and I like the themes you mention about guilt and regret … Years ago, I did try his earlier novel Imagine Me Gone … but I didn’t finish it. It swirled around for a while. Maybe I’ll give the author a second chance. thanks.

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    1. Thanks Susan and I really liked this novel. Its melancholy but ends in a hopeful place. And for me Peter was the main attraction. He made the book for me.

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